| On a free night you decide to go a certain bar, either | | | | Confidence is the major key to have when you come |
| with your friends or alone. You spot a girl who seems | | | | up to the girl and start a conversation. Regardless of |
| to be interesting; what's the next step then? Meeting a | | | | how nervous or timid you feel, exert your best effort, |
| girl in a bar can be an exciting adventure for all guys | | | | even if you have to pretend that you are relaxed and |
| but doing the right things at the right time can spell the | | | | composed. |
| difference between a great and a lousy night. | | | | By showing that you have got the nerves and trying |
| Keep in mind that in meeting new faces, girls can be | | | | not to look clumsy, the situation will become more at |
| just as uneasy as you are, maybe even more. The | | | | ease and natural. This would help to make the girl relax |
| secret is in trying to look confident and poised, and you | | | | as well and have the impression that you are indeed |
| are ready for an adventure. | | | | confident. |
| The first step is to get the general situation of the | | | | Steer the conversation to build some kind of |
| place, where the girls are, and check for ones who | | | | connection between the two of you, and then ask for |
| might be interested in you. Remember that girls go to | | | | her number. You will not have any trouble doing this if |
| bars for the same purpose as you - to meet | | | | you have successfully made her feel that she can |
| someone interesting. When you do find one you | | | | trust you. |
| consider to a potential meet. Grab your chance and | | | | Making the first call and the other succeeding events |
| go! | | | | that would lead to your first date and so forth is an |
| Without giving it a lot of thought, simply walk over to | | | | entirely different story. By following these simple but |
| where she is and present yourself by way of | | | | effective hints in meeting girls, you will find it easier to |
| introduction. Too much thinking about your | | | | accomplish each time. |
| conversational lines will only result to your being tense. | | | | |